The art of not expecting !!!
Bullshit.. I haven't seen anybody not expecting.. there is nothing as no expectation. Let me start with a way to stop expecting... 1. Learn meditation- when you start learning it... The one thing that comes in your mind is that it wil make us calmer, indifferent, positive and what not. Expectations start the time you do something.. 2. Speak your heart out - the moment you think about this.. (you expect) that the other person will not judge you on speaking your heart out. Or that your diary where you are speaking your heart out will not be read by others.. 3. Call your mom - she will never leave you without giving an advice (that you always know inside) 4. Write this blog - but there is a dicey expectation.. that ppl should not read this.. or they must like my writing.. Its basically... You can't stop expecting.. you have to make yourself so strong(fake) that the hurt does not show up on your face..till the time you absorb/channelize your emotions.. otherwise your ...