Strength

It takes a great deal to be strong. It is a long drawn process.. when you just want to break down and you still show up.. u get up.. and face the world. Face the challenges that life throws upon you.  Hold the things that tend to fall apart. Hold other when they are falling apart while keeping your sanity intact is probably one of the toughest things to do.It is never the easier path to take. 

It is very easy to lay down and count your sorrows and get depressed and fall down.

Robert Frost said...
The woods were lovely dark and deep, but I had promises to keep. And miles to go before I sleep and miles to go before I sleep. 

And my fav mother Teresa said...

People are often unreasonable and self centred 
Forgive them anyway...
If you are kind, people will accuse you of selfish motives.. 
Be kind anyways..
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow
Do good anyways
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough
Give your best anyways
For you see, in the end, it's between you and God
It was never between you and them anyways...


But the Good, I do, comes back to me.. in many ways... Like the cup of tea in front of me. Like my family.. my MIL. And many many other beings and things in my life whom I am grateful for. 

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