OSLA

Sounds like khonsla ka ghonsla...

One Sided Lovers Association

I think each one of us.. 80's kids are a part of OSLA at some point of time in their lives..  

Going by the memoirs i have heard and my own life story.. starting from our teens.. or pre teens.. when the hormones start to develop.. we tend to let the feeling go out..  in the form of crush.. or a little harmless fixation/imagination.

It started with pre teens class, the special trait that attracted in the boy was that they were toppers (yes not one but two)..that was all in my head and all good vibes only..

In the teens, it was the boy next door... Never found the courage to clear the mess in my head... May be it was all the fantasy world made up by me.. it was 2-3 years long till there was next.

At the end of teens, in college, he was the best of my friend... It was heavenly... it was quite strong.. spoke my heart out.. friendzoned.. lived in my fairy -tale world for years .. hoping of a ray of hope .. my friend once told me it was my ego, other friend told me that he is not reciprocating the love back, he has it in him... Dint realise that  I waited for that confession for so long.. may be it is not worth that much of wait.. he is living his fairy tale too.. OSLA ka ghonsla bahut accha lag raha tha.. God finally made me realise that it is to be eliminated out of my mind.. sooner the better...btw.. in the process, I had lost my friend.. may I never saw him as my friend.... He, to pkka, missed his friend.. had I been beautiful and tall and wealthy  enough and non working..non aspiring.. he would have reciprocated... Or felt.... But then I would have suffocated being his trophy wife.. I don't want to blame his priorities/wishes.. I should not judge..  that is the way people are .. and that makes us unique and beautiful. Diversity... Let's leave this para and this chain of thoughts now and forever. And life my life happily and without regrets.. wishing his health and hapiness too.. and all those who were a part of OSLA because I didn't/couldn't reciprocate... 

Let there e peace and love that prevails.. all get their share of love and hormonal balance😜

Finally late 20s we tend to settle.. and the fairyland was built.. I was fortunate enough that it was all that I have ever wanted and even more.. when u get ethings u desire... you are happy and confident... Things to complete your life.. things yet to be done for your soul... 

Let's see what late 30s and 40s and 50s and 60s and beyond, if they exists, have in store for us... 

Cheers to 80's kids and OSLA

What kind of pre teens and teens do exist now?? In 2000's kids.. curious minds.. being parents 🤗🥰