Love develops

We can never explain the relationship between a child and his mother... it grows with time or develops....
As child becomes more independent and separates physically from her mother...the bonding deepens ...
Child knows the touch of his mother.. judges her emotions... starts internalizing them... As he starts to face the society.. mother can think she is taking a back seat.. but she is needed always... just for the selfless love....that she always has for the child....

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